Boomers, Millenials, X-Geners


This little pincushion and needle holder I had found in a yard sale and it turned out to be a collector’s item that sold well on eBay.

It’s that time of year again, Yard Sale Season!  Kicking off the Cinco de Mayo weekend in Bryn Mawr!  Complete with Food Trucks, Raffles, and T-Shirts!

OK.  That’s not the title of this blog.  Now I’ll get to it.  I read an interesting piece in a Facebook article that the Millenials and X-Geners are blaming the Boomer generations for their ruined futures.  How Boomers were more about “feelings” than reality.  Boomers ignored climate change, did nothing and bankrupted the futures of the generations after them.  Well, there may well be some truth to that but as a Boomer myself but at the bottom of that generation and with some feelings of being cheated out of an old age outside of dire poverty, I do have a response.  Rather than blaming today’s problems on the Boomer generation how about a little trip down memory lane.

*1950’s  presented the big Communist scare.  What did any of us know about communism except what our parents told us?  I remembered being told that how would I like to have to share the family house with strangers who’ll just move in willy nilly and take what that please from me?  We were dumb kids too little to understand and uninterested to believe anything else.  The same can be said for kids today.  Parents can tell them anything and they’ll just believe it, unless they are so mature beyond their years that they’ll actually do research to suss out the truth.  Anything with the word “Social” was communistic and forbidden.  Who’s responsible for this propaganda?

*1960’s was the turmoil years of the old mindsets.  Many positive happenings that changed the world we live in today and it was the Boomer generations that put their necks out for it all:  Revolution and Civil Rights are at the forefront.   How much does anyone think would be going on for these actions today if they weren’t done back then?  We’re still at it and Black Lives Matter proves that.  I remember a nurse telling me back then she made nothing because nurses were expected to be “Angels of Mercy”. Nurses were all women then.  There was also the rise of Coops and Communes.  We don’t hear much about communes anymore but a few are still around.  Natural foods was also emerging.

*1970’s I remember as the oil shortage scare and the “Throw Away Society”.  I was still too young to own a car and didn’t even drive until the late 70’s, but I do remember the gas lines from watching the news and being told that there’s a limit of oil deposits and how they would be tapped out completely by 1990.  All untrue!  There was also talk about pollution and tapping out the natural resources of the world.  We hadn’t heard of climate change back then.  In fact I don’t remember even hearing about the ozone hole above Antartica until the 1990’s.  I had heard a little about electric cars though, and some were actually produced but soon disappeared.

“Who Killed the Electric Car?”  A film made in 2006 is an easy find on eBay or Amazon.  It’s been awhile since I watched it so I don’t remember much, but I do remember it did talk about the oil crises of the 70’s and how that was soon forgotten after the gas lines ended.  GM who produced those electric cars found ways of taking them back and destroying them.  Now why do you think they did that?  Did we forget that burning gas is polluting our world?  Well. . . sort of.  Not long after that pollution controls were introduced, the catalytic converter and elimination of leaded fuel had become law.  Appeasing that crisis!  Also during the 1970’s every household had a television.  A sure way of propagating information to the masses, molding the mindsets, culture and ensuring a future of consumerism.  IMG_0077.JPG

Does our Throw Away Society have yet to reach it’s peak?  This photo was taken only a couple of years ago at one of those new buildings near the University of Minnesota campus.  Yes, this heap of rubbish came from Millenials and X-Geners who go deep into debt with student loans and blame the Boomer generations for all their woes.  A few people do try to change things and recently began taking in the trash the wealthier ones had thoughtlessly tossed away and have opened a free store.  I remember free stores in the 1970’s.  Lately I’ve noticed eBay sales are slow and good used items are losing the interest of these new generations who think passing up a good used and well made piece of furniture such as a bookshelf for something new and cheap made out of chip board and will ruin as soon as something liquid is spilt on it.  Alternative energy is still difficult for the average homeowner when it should be so cheap to be nearly free.  Who’s responsible for this?

I can only hope that reusable energy doesn’t disappear and is forgotten like the electric car once was.  Yesterday it was television that propagated the masses with pure Capitalistic B.S.  Today it’s Social Media. Will the Millenials and the X-Geners be remembered future generations as the ones that blamed others for their problems and did nothing too?  I would like to think not.  In a positive light I see some changes for the average working person getting out from under oppressive working conditions such as Taxi companies that Uber and Lyft resolved.  The price gouging hotels all cried foul on AirBnB’s during the Super Bowl.  I had even heard the phrase, “Social Capitalism” once.  I hope to hear more of that.

Chipped McCoy is the Real McCoy

fullsizeoutput_141.jpegChipped art pottery is always steeply discounted and there’s a rustic look that can be added for everyday use.  Collectors always look for the perfect piece and they pay well for it.  But for those of us with smaller budgets and big desires we can settle for the less than perfect and display our finds casually outside the display cabinet.  I think that’s much more fun.  Chipped pottery has a charm of it’s own and the chips that are usually on the base can easily be hidden or even repaired.  The chip on this over 100 year old McCoy vase is obvious, but the bowl has been repaired and the the repair was well done and difficult to spot along the rim.

These old pieces were once common and popular in the days my grandmother was young, and I’m old now myself.  Because of the flaws I picked them up quite cheaply at a yard sale.  They probably don’t look like much now but perhaps another day they may become popular again.

fullsizeoutput_110.jpegThese Bakelite handled kitchen utensils are once again popular in the kitchens of the vintage decor and the spatula, which I have used, is flexible and very functional.  I sold these on eBay awhile back.  They too are from my grandmother’s era.

44A801B6-3894-41FF-9B78-8CEE539A3732.jpgThe kitchen match holder was once a standard item in every kitchen.  My Gran used a woodburning stove to cook on.  A big old thing in the kitchen that also heated the house.  Gas cookers often had to be lit with a match too.  Match holders can still be found and are fairly inexpensive.  However, the day will come when we won’t see anymore of these things.  So even if it is chipped, scratched or flawed in some way, it’s the character of the item that really counts.

Weapon of Choice is a podcast and episode 9 titled: Save the Paper Clip, by Julie Stearns of Junket: Tossed and Found is well worth listening to.  Back in my parents and grandparents days, things were not just used and thrown away, they were saved and even used for other purposes.  My generation was raised on the throw-away society, and look a the mess we’re in now.  What comes next?  Julie is doing huge things to contribute to our society now to make better and wiser choices.  I hope she does succeed in someday mainstreaming re-use.  The motto of robber barons is: “Poverty assures a steady supply of Labor”  We can resist that and create our own economic security as Julie has successfully done with her own little shop.  Show those barons that they need us more than we need them!


This appears to be a wall panel that was cut into 2″ X 3 1/2″ rectangles and then pieced back together inside a frame.  The whole thing weighs about 12 pounds and has the look of something looted from a temple.  However, is it real?  I’m having a hard time determining that because some of the cut marks don’t look like they go all the way through and makes me think they were just put there for the appearance.  On the other hand, there could well be a real seam and the tiles fitted together so well the seams cannot be seen, only the surface cuts.  It’s a lovely piece just the same and for the price I got it, I may at least break even on the re-sale or make a little profit.  Here is the centerpiece Buddha.

There is no question that this Mayan mask is real.  It’s very heavy and the stone clearly shows wear that can only be natural.  I had sold this on eBay but probably would’ve been better off taking it to a museum.

So, is it legal?  As long as the items you buy in the U.S. and resell in the U.S. including ivory, you should be alright.  It seems confusing but this article in the National Geographic explained how that works.  I don’t like to feel I’m supporting looters in the antiques trade but they are hard to avoid and much is unknown after the item’s been sold to a collector put on the market.  However, it goes to show they are out there and we shouldn’t be afraid to take something to a museum even without proof of where it was purchased.  Hanging onto receipts helps, though yard sales don’t provide receipts,  estate sales do. Photos help and a passport can provide a record of your travels.  Estate sales agents don’t always have the answers or know if something is real or fake or looted.  Most of them are very good, but as with all of us, knowledge comes with experience,  lots of reading and research.  There’s no real school for this, it’s a self taught degree.  A course in art history wouldn’t hurt.


IMG_0415.jpgYard sale season has begun and the finds are endless!  Today is the beginning with the Apple Valley sales and next week is the most popular Bryn Mawr sales.  Food trucks, canoe raffle, nearby coffee shops with bathrooms and all!  The calendars are still incomplete but here’s a list I’ve started: May 6- Bryn Mawr, Tangle Town, Summit Hill; May 12/13 Plymouth Ferndale North, Harrison Hills; May 20-Little Canada, Burnsville, Linden Hills, Como Park. Carag, E. Harriet, Kingfield, Seward; June 3-Armatage, Andover.IMG_0090.jpgThat curious word “regionality”  means just what it sounds like.  I thought I was the one who made it up but when I checked online I found that it is a new word and somebody else had beat me to it.   Every region has it’s own personality and tastes but with the chain store/franchise boom, now globalization and the movement of people these tastes may shift somewhat.  However, every region still preserves something, we have out beaches, forests, lakes, rivers, prairies, mountains, and always the weather that define every region unique.  People dress themselves to adapt to these various regions and things they collect over time and use to decorate their homes also reflect the region they live in.  A great way to learn the personality of a city is to explore the gardens people create on their front and back yards or even on their windowsills.  There’s no better opportunity to explore these gardens than going to an annual neighborhood yard sale.

The New Year is a Rooster

I am on hand to herald in the day, and to announce its exit. I thrive by clockwork and precision. In my unending quest for perfection all things will be restored to their rightful place. This littl…

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The New Year is a Rooster


I am on hand to herald in the day,

and to announce its exit.

I thrive by clockwork and precision.

In my unending quest for perfection

all things will be restored to their rightful place.


This little ceramic holder and measuring spoon set could once be found in a Dime Store.  My mother remembers the Dime Stores well, and I do too.  There was one in Dinkytown where I grew up. Items of all sorts of convenience and household decoration could be found and very low prices.  Today we have the Dollar Store.  Dime Store items can still be found at a sale, though very few people probably remember the Dime Stores of yesteryear.


Don’t let this image scare you.  Kovels’ listed 8 types of collectors in the February issue of their newsletter:

Memorabilia collectors usually want things they remember from their childhood years.

“Squirrels” describe the people who search for the best sources and buy a variety of stuff for later.  They may become serious collectors and maybe eventually later they become dealers and prune their collections.

“In the genes” are the collectors who buy for special collections for display and usually inherit their collecting habits from their parents or other family members.

“Historians”  stay focused on time and period

Decorators style their homes from magazines and the homes of famous people.  They search for less expensive look a-likes or the real thing when they’re lucky.

“Social Climbers”  search for family heirlooms.

The secretive collector looks for ways to hide money from tax collectors and ex-spouses by investing in antiques and such that can be sold later.

Then then there’s the unfortunate hoarder who just can’t part with anything.

I’ve been doing a lot of reading about hoarders lately because I have thoughts of going into the business of cleaning out houses.  It can be extremely expensive to clean out a hoarder house and often the workers wear hazmat suits to do so when there’s one that is really messy.  I used to believe that to deal with a hoarder is to get them out of the house for a period of time while a crew went in to clean it out.  I’ve learned that can be the worst thing to do to a hoarder.  They are very attached to their stuff and just taking it away like that would be like ripping their  hearts out.  It’s very delicate work and takes a long time.  If done the way I used to believe, the hoarder just hoards all over again.

The Collyer brothers of New York were the first to be acknowledged as hoarders.  They were wealthy lawyers and lived in the Bronx family mansion during the 1940’s.  Andy Warhol was known to be a hoarder and Sothby’s auction house made millions on his collections.  A film was made of Jackie Kennedy’s cousins. “Grey Gardens”  who lived in a mansion in the elite East Hampton and were eventually raided by the health department.  These three famous hoarders were all from wealthy families.

Another myth about hoarders is that they came from survivors of the Great Depression and learned to save everything.  Again not true.  Hoarders are often from the wealthy and have somehow become disconnected with people and became connected to things.  Out of the 3 hoarders mentioned above, Andy’s collections was the only one that profited.  I used to believe that people kept all that stuff because they thought they had a gold mine in their homes but after the tens of thousands of dollars it takes to clean out a hoarder house there really is no profit.  About $2000 worth of stuff that could be sold was found in the Collyer brother’s home.

So, if you have any fears of becoming a hoarder maybe you’re not  beyond a bit of self-help.  It’s good to enjoy what life offers while still alive and that includes collections as well as just having nice things you like.  However, sometimes it’s good to prune your attachments and pass them onto another custodian to enjoy.  Lately I have sold a number of my favorite things with that thought in mind and have gained a bit of money to buy more.  The World Wide Web offers lots of opportunities to become hobby buyers and sellers so the joy of going to Estate Sales and Yard Sales can continue well throughout our lives.



Dreams left behind in Boxes

As the sun begins to set on our lives . . . “In a melody that rings Like the tunes we used to play, And our dreams are playing yet!” One of the most common items found in Estate Sales a…

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Dreams left behind in Boxes

IMG_0099.jpgAs the sun begins to set on our lives . . .

“In a melody that rings

Like the tunes we used to play,

And our dreams are playing yet!”

One of the most common items found in Estate Sales are lovely things that have never been used and are still in the boxes they were bought in.  They are things the living don’t have the heart to part with or may have forgotten in a back closet as part of a dream that never quite made it off the back burner.

More common are the ‘good’ sets of silverware or china, reserved for company that rarely if ever arrives.  Those sets are usually found in their original boxes put away for the day they can be proudly displayed.

IMG_0241.jpgWhatever happened to those dreams of the person who made all those purchases and never quite fulfilled them in their lifetime will never be known, but new dreams are now being passed on to the living through the estate sale and repurposed by the ones who buy them at discount.  The items of these dreams may go into a collection and preserved for future generations to gaze at or worn and used by their new owners.

IMG_0576.jpg I too am guilty of boxed dreams and sometimes I find I need to downsize them.  I donated many new items I had bought over time at the sales and packed away in my own closet and gifted more to people I know will use them and appreciate them.  That may not be the reason I bought them at the time but it was still a success.  Everything and everybody has their destiny.

In the end, it’s the joy of living that counted.


A Passing Hail Let us rest ourselves a bit! Worry? -wave your hand to it- Kiss your finger-tips, and smile It farewell a little while Weary of the weary way We  have come from Yesterday, Let us fre…



A Passing Hail

Let us rest ourselves a bit!

Worry? -wave your hand to it-

Kiss your finger-tips, and smile

It farewell a little while

Weary of the weary way

We  have come from Yesterday,

Let us fret us not, instead,

Of the weary way ahead.

(Riley Songs O’Cheer)


It is always a good time to start searching and collecting gold.  Today treasure hunters move through estate sales, yard sales, flea markets, thrift shops, and anything and everything of the sort.  Laws have made the old fashioned digging for treasure hunts nearly obsolete, legally.  Diving to wrecks under the sea also has it’s legal limits and often prohibitive costs.  However, what you find in an old house is not limited.  Salvagers have become the new treasure hunters of the day, people who clean out homes for the banks and real estate companies and even estate sale agents who clean and organize the sales.  Treasure hunting has always been hard work and requires extensive travel.  However, the easiest way is to treasure hunt and still enjoy the comforts of home is to cruise the sales.


It can sometimes be work but it’s also fun to go out poking though a sale.  I quite enjoy walking though the mansions and beautiful homes of our grand country looking for a treasure I can use in my own home and sell for a few bucks more in eBay.  Of course, knowing you stuff is very helpful but if you don’t know your stuff you learn along the way.  Everybody has their trials and errors.  Cruising the sales are usually the least expensive way to learn your lessons and with everything on the internet these days and mobile technology, many mistakes can be avoided.  If you get fooled anyway, well, look at it this way, “You Win Some, You Lose Some.”


Don’t let what you think is a bad sale put you off.  Agents are all different, some set their prices too high, and some price it to go.  People don’t always know if what they have is real or paste or what the price should be. Agents are not  experts in everything and if one doesn’t want to talk to you when you do know something and flat out refuse to come down in price, don’t fret, just walk away.  From their point of view they think you’re just trying to low-ball them.  They get people everyday trying to squeeze a deal and who’ll tell them anything to get it. You can always make an offer and if they still say no, you can come back at the end of the day to ask one more time. Remember though, there is always another day and another sale.  S0,dig through those piles of jewelry in clumps on the tables, you never know what has been passed up as junk.  And most of all, don’t give up because sometimes if it is too good to be true, look again, it just might be!

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